What is your definition of a homewrecker?

I just listened to this song called Home wrecker by LaJade on www.coredjs.com. The song was very nice and it made me think about a few things. Anyone that knows me or my radio show will be like Choc that's a good topic for you to talk about on Choclate City Radio.  
There are so many questions and answers that surround that word. What makes someone a home wrecker? What is your definition of a home wrecker?

In the song she touches on not wanting to be a homewrecker and he needs to go home before the sun comes up. Makes you wonder what is going on at the crib. If your woman or man isn't taking care of home and you have given home several warnings and nothing doesn't change and you go out and find attention else where, is that person the home wrecker? Wouldn't make the person who isn't handling home the home wrecker? I'm just saying that if shit ain't right at home, then the wrecking started in the crib.

If home has a solid front then no one should be able to mess your situation up. And if someone steps out, why are they the ones we blame. If the person knows your situation then it becomes argumentative. But if the person knows you are in the situation its still a touchy subject because what if the person is pursuing you? So the song touched on one way of looking at the situation. She considers herself to be a home wrecker but is it because she was involved with a  man knowing he has a home life? This topic is one of those that can go on and on.

 I even went on twitter and asked the question what makes a person a home wrecker and the answers were mixed. Based on the answers I got last night, I decided to do my show about the topic. I played the song after I gave everyone some back ground information about the song, La'Jade and www.CoreDjs.com. Then me and Dahlia started in on the topic. My stand was a home wrecker doesnt necessarily mean its the person on the outside. I feel like its the person at home that decides to stop giving their mate what they need at home and causes them to look else where. You cant really blame the other person for fucking the neglected party. Some people arent always forth coming about their home situation. Now if the person is pursuing you knowing you have a home life, then that's a different story. Dahlia agreed with me and went on the give her thoughts on the matter. 


But everyone who knows me and we talked about that and a whole lot of other stuff. We had men call in and give their point of view. While on the show, I tweet La'Jade and invited her on the show. So we have to do a part 2 so we can hear her story and take it from there. The show was so good last night, that we went past our alloted time and got kicked off. So for those of you that missed the show last night, I have included the player so you can listen to what you missed. Now what's your definition of a home wrecker? 

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