Women this is where a lot of us fuck up. We meet a man and we really like him so start doing everything to damn soon. We don’t take the time to learn him before we waiting on his ass hand and foot without making his ass earn it. We get caught up with him having a proper dick game till we give him too many privileges at one time. Here is a good scenario for you. You meet a man and yall talk on the phone. He tells you all the shit you wanna hear. Yall go out on the first night. He brings you back home and you invite him up for a drink, conversation, or if its me I invite his ass up to fuck. You really want to impress this man because you feel he would be a good man for you. You bring out you’re A game for sucking his dick and giving him some pussy. So now you’re feeling his style and you’re wanting to see him more and more each day. When you first met him, you knew he was in the streets doing whatever he is doing. You don’t bother him because you figure if he is smashing you on the regular, he don’t have time to fuck anyone else, or so you think. Now you have made shit real comfortable for him. You’re cooking for him, doing his laundry and he has the freedom to come and go as he please. You’re even contemplating giving his ass a key to the crib. Now this dude has the best of both worlds.
Now months and months go by and shit is getting crazy because you are catching feelings. You are trying to chill and see if he brings up the topic of making you his girl but the conversation doesn’t happen. Yall are spending a lot of time together at your crib and you might spend a few nights at his house but when he leaves, you leave. You are ready to settle down but he is still doing what he has been doing since day one. He is coming over eating ur food, getting his clothes washed and dicking your ass down. But you’re tired of the situation and you want him to slow down. You have all kinds of thoughts that maybe there is someone else but deep down inside you don’t wanna know. You have let him do what he wants to do for so long that he feel its okay. Now you want to change things in hopes of a relationship with him.
Men will do what you let them do. If you start out in the beginning giving him everything why in the hell should he commit to a relationship? And if you keep letting have free reign why would he want to change? You’re giving his ass full time benefits with part-time hours. Some men may eventually decide to settle down and make you his chick. Then the others will be like if it aint broke don’t fix it. You cant get made at them for taking what you’re giving them and running with it. Slow roll they ass. Go out have a good time. Give him some pussy and if the dick is real good, suck his dick. After you’re done let him know his ass has got to get up and go the fuck home. You gotta slow feed him to get what you want. Let him see slowly but surely that you are good woman and a valuable friend. Once he sees all that in due time along with some good pussy with a splash of felony head, he will wife you the fuck up. And if he doesn’t, there are millions of good men in the world at your finger tips. Remember its OUR world and we are letting them live in it.